"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.
If you want to be happy, practice compassion,"
The Dalai
Lama
"I have no idea what's awaiting me or what will happen
when this all ends. For the moment, I know this: There are sick people, and
they need curing,"
Camus (The
Plague)
“If one of you has a child[c] or an ox that has fallen into
a well, will you not immediately pull it out on a Sabbath day?...
Jesus
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The Bible says….
Really! Right here!
Keep the Sabbath
No shellfish, clams, oysters, urchins, or lobsters
No eating cats, dogs, and ferrets
No tattoos
Don’t mix fabrics
Do kill the pagans
All of them
Many point a finger at queer people and say “Bad! Sinner!”
But what about the greedy, those who lack compassion
those who lie and cheat, commit adultery, get divorced, and
and
and
and
There are prohibitions everywhere, everywhere
the list goes on forever
no wonder so many devout souls look constipated
Dour, bitter, hard, closed
It is all about the rules
Keep them or else
Keep them and you are in, safe, headed toward streets of
gold
Don’t keep them and you are out, doomed, and headed to
eternal punishment
But why are there all these rules?
Why are they there?
For God?
Or for us?
are they there to keep us in line, control us
or protect us and nurture us?
do we fully understand
why that law, in that place, in that time
Don’t eat shellfish
In that place and time shellfish were dangerous.
How about the ones now being used, manipulated
As a tool to gain power?
Those about homosexuality
Are we sure (in the first place) we know why?
Perhaps those rules were not so much about loving,
monogamous relationships
as about a sexuality that was predatory, abusive
about rape, pederasty
the abuse of sex
Of course, THAT is wrong.
Just as it is wrong for any form of sex to be
Predatory, abusive, or forced
And we know they did not know, that there IS a gender
spectrum
Brain imaging and studies of chromosomes and more
Suggest variety
Perhaps what was confusing is not so confusing now?
It is no secret that we pick and choose
Dropping some, Obsessing over others
It is also true that we “use” the rules
To control, to gain power (even political power),
And suppress and even oppress
That we use them to punish and control
Jesus turned the concept of law upside down.
It is not the law, imposed from without by the righteous
powerful
that makes us God’s people
it is a law of love, written by the Spirit on our hearts
that makes us God’s people
Giving us love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness, self-control
against such things, there is no law
It is not a sin to be kind, gentle, patient, or loving
There is no sin of empathy
But to be the opposite
Cruel, harsh, controlling, and “not loving”
That probably is, sin
Alas and alack
It is confusing and sketchy.
So what do we do?
We filter all the rules through the filter of love
Because there really is only one law
One
Love
“Jesus said ‘You must love the Lord your God with all your
heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest
commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two
commandments.”
He was even more blunt (John 13:34) “So now I am giving you
a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love
each other.”
Paul (Romans 13:10) said, “Love does no wrong to others, so
love fulfills the requirements of God’s law.”
I am sorry Lord, that we do not get it
Not very well
None of us
None
I am sorry when leaders use the law to gain loyalty
I am sorry when some deny the very existence of people you
love
I am sorry when, as we try to figure it all out, we get it
wrong
I am sorry when we use the rules as a weapon against people
Lord, teach us to love
Teach us to reject any way that is not love
Help us to take risks for the sake of love
So that if we err, and we will, we have erred on the side of
love
The world is a right mess
We won’t get out of it by beating people over the head with
a bible
We won’t get out of it through coercive control
We won’t get out of it by being retributive
There is only one way out.
We must follow the one law that counts the most
We must love
You, ourselves
And ALL others