… we are each impacted by the circumstances that impact
those around us. What hurts you hurts
me. What heals you heals me. What cause you joy causes me to rejoice, and
what makes you sad also causes me to weep.
Jacqui
Lewis
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we are getting it wrong
conservatives and liberals
Democrats and Republicans
Christians and Jews, and Muslims, and everyone else too
we are getting it wrong
because quite simply, we have stopped seeing each other
Jacqui Lewis, in her book fierce love talks about the
Zulu tribe in Africa
“When they greet each other” she writes, “they offer this
greeting. Sawubona, which means ‘I see
you.’ And the response is Sikhona, which
means ‘I exist.’
But we don’t see each other
We don’t see the person in front of us
We deny, in a real way that they,
With their thoughts and feelings
With their joy and pain
Exist
In the New York Times this week an article explored why,
in liberal strongholds, liberal candidates are doing
poorly
to distill the article down to its heart
the problem is that liberals are focused on ideological
purity
and, to quote the article “on projecting symbols of
virtuousness while ignoring the needs of families. “
As one person, a woman who put together a recall of school
board members in San Francisco noted, “Covid was akin to an earthquake that
forced people to move into tents on the sidewalk… “Finally, your elected
leaders show up and you’re like, ‘Thank God, here’s some help,’”…“And they say,
‘We are here to help. We’re going to change the street signs for you.’”
I get the fierce desire for justice, especially racial
justice
that burns in the heart of the left,
as much, even more, than I understand the fear of change
on the right.
but what seems like a truth
is that our ideology, perhaps sometimes our theology
blinds us
to people
to the point that we stumble along
left and right
doing ideologically driven things that hurt and harm, in
some cases
or simply fail to help, in others
So on one end of the spectrum we see voter suppression,
where the
Need of people to have a voice is ignored,
And on the other end we see schools renamed
while the pain of children and parents
are casually dismissed
we are all, in one way or another
ignoring the basic needs of people who are hurting
I am conflicted about all of this
Because I know symbols such as school names and statues
are
in fact important
but I also know we have to hear and see and feel the pain
of ALL people
how do we do justice to the pain of all while
needing to do justice to the pain of some?
that is the question
and I have no answer
except to say
that as I hold, fiercely my beliefs
about God, and justice, and equity
I need to see those around me
all those around me
even those I might disagree with, fiercely
I need to see them so clearly that what hurts them hurts
me.
What heals them heals me.
what makes them sad also causes me to weep
but do so in a way that does not cause me to
abandon my fight for justice
fierce love
is not for the faint of heart
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