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And every common bush afire with God;
And only he who sees takes off his shoes;
The rest sit round it and pluck blackberries.

Elizabeth Browning



Monday, October 28, 2024

The other as not other

Our usual perception of the world shows us all being as carefully defined, with distinct edges, all outside one another… We are finite, contingent, and conditioned beings, and nothing more… The heart of the mystic discovery is that we are all one, and that One is unconditioned, unlimited, and undefined.  This, of course, is the foundation of neighbor love.. until we see ourselves in our undefined reality we won’t have the freedom, the power, and the energy to love our neighbor in the neighbor’s undefined reality…

 

Nobody denies that dividing, as a vehicle for better understanding is useful.  But along comes the mystic and puts the separated things together, and all the “rational” people cry Paradox! or worse, Heresy!

 

… the unity is there… both elements of the paradox are simultaneously the case.  The bush burns and yet is not consumed.  Reality is both changing and unchanging. One is both one's self and intimately united with all others.  What one does is done by both oneself and the Supreme Being.  You don’t have to choose between them.

              Beatrice Bruteau, Radical Optimism

 

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Dualism

Individualism

Call it what you will

 

It has hard edges

It divides and separates

It forces us into radical polarities

 

Us, Them

Good, Bad

Sacred, Secular

Powerful, weak

Right, Wrong

Republican, Democrat

 

The other is other

All outside us, our individual, self, our political party, our country

Is “another”

 

But not just “another”

Another who because they are distinct

And take up their own space in the universe

And use the same resources we do

And compete with us

In opposition

 

Are not simply distinct, different (perhaps very different)

But a threat, even an enemy

 

So much for love of neighbor

How can we possibly love our neighbor as ourselves

Unless we see the other as not other

But as one who participates in the One with us?

 

A distinct, and yet not distinct

An individual, and yet united with us at the deepest

And most meaningful level

 

I love this!

I hate it!

 

I love the idea of being united with a Gandhi, a Nelson Mandela

A Desmond Tutu, a Martin Luther King Jr.

 

It is not so much fun to embrace that unity

When one thinks of Donald Trump,

And the racist waving that Nazi flag

And the second amendment extremist carrying an AR-15 in McDonald's

 

Yet what would it mean to see those people from whom we feel alienated

Those people who violate our moral, ethical, and spiritual values

Those people who we, frankly dislike, immensely

 

As people with whom we are one

As we participate in the One?

 

It is easier to slide back into dualism

And an individualism that is, ultimately, toxic

Than to embrace the reality

That they too are our neighbors

 

It is easier to create distinctions and boundaries

And huddle behind the sharp boundaries

And give ourselves permission not to interact with them

Not to listen to them

Not to see them as fully human

 

And simply throw them away,

As garbage

 

Yes, I know

It seems as if that is exactly what they have done with so many others

The poor, and ill

The immigrant, and the Indigenous

The people who happen to be LGBTQI+

 

But isn’t it the failure to see the other as not other

That leads to a focus on distinctions

That creates fear, and then, worse, hate

And causes one to remove the other's face?

Dehumanize them?

 

And isn’t this that which enables them,

And us if we are not careful,

To reject, demean, ridicule, oppress,

And even kill?

 

The bush burns but is not consumed

That is the mystery of the Sacred

They are people who are (insert a word here)

Deplorable?

Evil?

Toxic

 

And they are united to me (and you)

We are one?

Neighbors, brothers, sisters, children of God

All of us

 

Oh God

I cannot grasp this

I cannot see some people this way

With charity and compassion

 

I need help

I need help to find my unity with them

To feel even the slightest spark of love

To accept them as brother, sister

 

As individuals who participate with me in

the One that is you.

 

And yet I realize I will never find peace, hope

Justice and equity

 

That I will never fully enjoy the Kingdom

Until I do.


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