The hunger to connect

We hunger to be known and understood. We hunger to be loved. We hunger to be at peace inside our own skins. We hunger not just to be fed these things but, often without realizing it, we hunger to feed others these things because they too are starving for them. We hunger not just to be loved but to love, not just to be forgiven but to forgive, not just to be known and understood for all the good times and bad times that for better or worse have made us who we are, but to know and understand each other to the point of seeing that, in the last analysis, we all have the same good times, the same bad times, and that for that very reason there is no such thing in all the world as anyone who is really a stranger.

                                                                                                                                Frederick Buechner

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Hello

How are you

Won’t you tell me your name?!

So many times a day

I encounter another person

At work

At church

In the community

At an event

And there is a hunger

To connect

To be heard

To hear

but to make the connection

I must be connected

with myself

with Sacred Presence

for only if I connect with others

out of fullness

and not out of need

does true communion occur

otherwise I talk and don’t listen

I grasp rather than give

It is about me, rather than them

And we both end up

Alone