I am a wanderer. I would say that I am a seeker, but sometimes I have no idea what I might be seeking, so I will stick with wanderer. This blog is more a public journal than anything. I don't claim to have life figured out. I simply stumble from mystery to mystery, and share my reflections along the way. Sometimes I feel burdened, and trudge. Sometimes? Well sometimes grace breaks through, and its time to dance.
Primitive religion is not believed, it is danced!
Arthur Darby Nock
Earth's crammed with heaven, And every common bush afire with God; And only he who sees takes off his shoes; The rest sit round it and pluck blackberries.
Thursday, November 1, 2012
I, Thou, We
I do a lot of reading
as most of my friends know
I have shelves of books
some of the new, barely explored
others old friends among whose pages
I have wandered countless times
small, but not insignificant
among heftier tomes
is Martin Buber's little masterpiece
"I and Thou"
Buber's work has been referenced
in at least three other books I have read recently
used different ways
but all still talking about the way
help shape and form and create each other
When the relationship is I - Thou
rather than I - It
(or in these days it might be even more powerful to think of "I - THEY"
it is a lover - beloved relationship
in which people find not only each other
but in fact, themselves...
your "Thou", helps me discover my "I"
Gone is the functional, calculating
relationship where affection and value must be earned
and is not just given
One author goes even further
and suggests what would be even better
would be a "we"
where our encounters with others
leads to kind of a Hegelian sythnesis
which is somehow better, more evolved
that what was there before
I love that idea
it brings to mind the concept of synergy
where 2 + 2 = 5
The idea that two people
coming together creates a reality that is bigger
than if they had never come together at all
And yet, we seem to be so stuck
in that "I - It" world
where one must be right
where one must lose
Yesterday I sat with a number of people
I also sat with cancer
I sat with frailty
and heart failure
I sat with addiction
It was a day just to sit
and try to be a Thou
so they could be an I
and the kind of I so they
could be a Thou